Lift yourself by yourself.

उद्धरेदात्मनात्मानं नात्मानमवसादयेत्। आत्मैव ह्यात्मनो बन्धुः आत्मैव रिपुरात्मनः॥ Lift yourself by yourself. Do not degrade yourself. The self alone is your greatest friend — and the self alone can be your worst enemy. — Bhagavad Gita 6.5